Conversations with Victoria

Life after menopause - letting go and living! "I'm late, I'm late for a very important date" said the White Rabbit to Alice. My 77th birthday has just arrived albeit with a whimper rather than a  bang but I am determined not to be late for the date with the rest of my life. Although the numbers are meaningless on their own and have absolutely nothing to do with how I think and feel, there are two realities: one, is how people react, even one's own family and friends and their perception of how I should now be (more on that subject later);  and two, the real issue of maybe running out of time before I get to do or experience a whole lot of things which still  interest me. I have been married and divorced twice; have two grown children and a grand daughter. I have lived and worked in five different countries and made a variety of career choices and changes. Perhaps more significantly, I am authentic and speak from the point of experience: I have, like e...